DROP A SERIOUS HINT by DROP A SERIOUS HINT DROP A SERIOUS HINT Really can't bring yourself to invite a dude out? Then give him the green light to ask you. After flirting for a bit say something like, "Have you heard about this new movie? I've been dying to see it." It will give him the perfect opportunity to suggest you see it together — and because you've hinted at what you want to do, it takes some of the planning pressure off him.