THINK OF EVERY GUY AS PART OF YOUR GAGGLE by THINK OF EVERY GUY AS PART OF YOUR GAGGLE THINK OF EVERY GUY AS PART OF YOUR GAGGLE "Your gaggle is the group of guys who you might not be 'dating' or in a defined relationship with, but who fulfill some sort of need in your life," Massa explains. "They are helping you figure out who you are, what you want, and what type of man you ultimately desire." These dudes can include The Hot Sex Prospect, The Career Booster, and The Ex-Boyfriend Who's Still Around.