Naturally lighten ur hair!
1) mix some honey n a little bit of hot water in a bowl until it is more liquidy and less sticky- gel like.
2) to add more of a reddish- blonde look, add some cinnamon
3) add the substance to ur hair where u want to lighten ur hair
4) let it sit for about 2 hours
5) rinse your hair with hot water. then shampoo n condition like normally