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Try the Lift Up
Try the 'lift up.'
This makes twerking look tame. Sexpert Lisa Sweet, author of 365 Sex Thrills, says to bend over and put your hands on the ground and your butt in the air (think downward-facing dog). Have your guy stand behind you in a wide stance with his hands on your hips. Once he's inside you, control the motion by going up and down on your toes and pushing your backside into his groin. "This puts you in total control of the action," says Sweet. "The angle will offer G-spot stimulation, and he can also slide his hands around to give your clitoris some TLC."
Do it post-workout.
Follow one workout with another: Research found that women enjoyed a 150% increase in genital arousal after a 20min cardio session but it faded after about 30min. Take advantage by immediately hopping in the shower with your man for a speedy face-to-face encounter with both of you standing, your back against the shower wall, one leg raised. "He can hold your knee in the crook of his elbow--it will open you up and direct the pressure against your clitoris," says Sweet. To prevent wiping out, have him make small circles with his hips instead of thrusts.
Watch Erotic Flicks Together
Watch erotic flicks that turn you both on.
Forget Netflix--instead pop in an erotic movie that caters to both of your libidos. A study found that men preferred more graphic sex scenes while women got excited by erotic story lines. A flick that contains both? Intimate Encounters ($25, adamandeve.com). "It shows couples in intimate situations, but there's plenty of explicit sex for guys to appreciate," says Kat Van Kirk, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist/relationship therapist. If porn feels pervy to you, try a mainstream movie with intense sex scenes, like Blue Valentine or Wild Orchid.
Take adult sex ed.
You go to cooking or yoga classes, so why not brush up on your sex skills, too? It's something that Master Jeff, cohost of the Experience Channel's "No Vanilla" Web series, recommends. "For instance, you can learn to give each other a sexy massage," he says. (A little instruction in these areas is never a bad thing--especially if you're trying them for the first time.) Seek out sexy retailers in your area to see if they offer any workshops.
Try 'no-thrust' sex.
Hop into bed and do the complete opposite of what instinctively unfolds. "Basically, he enters you and there's a lot of kissing, caressing, and touching--without any pelvic thrusting," says Rachael Ross, M.D., Ph.D., sexologist and family-medicine physician on The Doctors. This slow-burn technique, used in tantric sex, is still erotic enough to give you an orgasm ("your vagina will start to rhythmically contract," says Ross), and it reconnects you as a couple, reminding you that sex is about more than pounding away and going to sleep.
Use the most advanced sex toy ever.
Make room in your top drawer! The Zuma Vibe by Icon Brands ($44, amazon.com) is a vibrator that has two separate motors to simultaneously stimulate the clitoris and G-spot. There are other perks too: The material warms to your body temperature so it won't feel cold against your skin, and it's ergonomically designed to avoid hand and wrist cramps (yours or his).
Give him icy oral.
Add an unexpected element to your mouth routine by having ice on hand before you go down on your guy. "Play with an ice cube in your mouth and let the sexual tension build," says Morse. "Then, perform oral like you usually would, and take the ice cube down his shaft. When you come back up, swirl it around his tip with your tongue." The element of surprise is what makes it such a turn-on, and it wakes up his nerve endings in a completely different--and pleasurable--way. It's like jumping from a hot tub back into a pool.
Shut out everything.
Sex somewhere you might get caught? Been on that balcony, done that quickie in the park. For a new thrill, try this: Wear a blindfold while you're getting it on. (Don't worry, that's where the S&M-ish stuff stops!) The eye covering simply provides a way to shut everything else out and focus on what he's doing to your body. "You'll feel everything more intensely," says Master Jeff.
Experience a water-pressure orgasm.
It's hard to be picky about orgasms, but Alexis Lass, author of The Posh Girl's Guide to Play, says water-induced O's can be especially off-the-charts. "When a steady stream of water pressure stimulates your clitoris, it delivers a feeling very unlike the sensation produced by the hands or mouth," she says. "It's deeper, more expansive, and intense."
To have one, lie on your back in the tub and position your body so that your legs are open wide and your sweet spot is directly underneath the flow of water (or, if you're using a handheld showerhead, stand and direct the water upward).
Write down all of the sex positions you want to try—and have him do the same.
Ever wish you could crawl into your guy's head to see what he really wants? Well, this activity makes that possible. Grab pens, paper, and a bottle of wine, and sit down together to write individual lists of positions you'd like to try, suggests Chris F. Fariello, Ph.D., author of The Lover's Guide Illustrated Encyclopedia.
Then compare notes and pick one to tick off that night. "Both talking about it and doing it can be hot," he says, especially when the position is one you or he invented. Better yet, it's the game that keeps on giving—you've just doubled the items on your sex bucket list!