Fulfill Her Sex Fantasies- Fifty Shades by Fulfill Her Sex Fantasies- Fifty Shades Ever since Fifty Shades of Grey hit the shelves at your local bookstore and proceeded to sell more than 40 million copies worldwide (and counting), one thing has been made abundantly clear: Women want more sex—and they want it extra freaky. “This book is clear evidence that women are craving more adventurous sex,” says Sara Gottfried, M.D., OB/GYN, author of The Hormone Cure.Speak Your Mind:- Women are into dirty talk, plain and simple. “One of the things women love about Grey’s character is how straightforward he is when it comes to what he wants,” says Dr. Gottfried. “He verbalizes what turns him on, and women are hungry—almost desperate—for that thrill.” Take this exchange from page 114: “Show me how you pleasure yourself" What? I frown. “Don’t be coy, Ana, show me,” he whispers. I shake my head. “I don’t know what you mean.” My voice is hoarse. I hardly recognize it, laced with desire. “How do you make yourself come? I want to see.”Redefine Foreplay:- It’s not rocket science: Foreplay is essential. But if you want to make her toes curl in ecstasy, it’s time to reinvent your routine. “Men don’t realize just how dialed back foreplay is for women,” Dr. Gottfried says. “Foreplay shouldn’t just consist of some kissing and breast play 10 minutes before you do the deed.” Your move: Take the passion outside the bedroom. Let her know her body is on your mind, even though you can’t have her at that very moment. Take this scene from page 78: He lunges at me, pushing me against the wall of the elevator.Before I know it, he’s got both of my hands in his viselike grip above my head, and he’s pinning me to the wall using his hips . . . His other hand grabs my hair and yanks down, bringing my face up, and his lips are on mine . . . My tongue tentatively strokes his and joins his in a slow, erotic dance . . . He brings his hand up to grasp my chin and holds me in place . . . and his hips restraining me. His erection is against my belly We'll stop there. Again, we're not telling you to spontaneously lunge at gorgeous women in elevators (unless you've been dying to meet cops).But if you want her to crave your body by the time you finally reach the bedroom, you must start tempting and teasing long before you hit the sheets. A simple move: Shoot her a sext at work telling her how much you can't wait to please her tonight. Move Beyond Boring Sex:- Missionary can be nice. Missionary can be romantic. But missionary should never become the comfortable standard. Your move: Step outside that vanilla box. “Women find Grey’s knowledge and dominance in the bedroom so sexy,” . Now, you may not be ready to turn that extra bedroom into youyour very own “red room of pain”—(ahem, page 98)—but there are subtle things you can try to get a taste of what’s outside your comfort zone. Usually all it takes is a simple conversation. If you want to try handcuffs, spanking, or sex toys, bring it up during pillow talk. “Confidence is a man’s best friend, and it can be such a turn-on,” . So if you’re unapologetic and honest about what you want, she’s more likely to be receptive to it. (Once she signs off, start shopping and pick up The Best Sex Toys for Men.)