EXPLORE THINGS WITH YOUR GUY FRIENDS by EXPLORE THINGS WITH YOUR GUY FRIENDS "The more you're open to letting guys show you all the different sides of themselves, the more likely you'll surprise yourself and fall in love with one of them," Massa explains. In a bowling league? Suggest grabbing a beer after the game. Or ask your casual hook-up to get brunch. The key is getting the guy out of a familiar context.