BUT GET THEM ALONE by Migdalia Milagros Romero Doger BUT GET THEM ALONE BUT GET THEM ALONE Still not sure if there's chemistry? Score some one-on-one time. Until you do, a guy may not even realize you're into him. That's what happened to one guy Massa interviewed who met his now-fiancé on a volleyball team. Only when they finally went out to dinner together did they both realize their connection.