Are They Really Your Friend? by Tori Brown Are They Really Your Friend?If they're your friend they'll be real with you. Meaning they will tell you the truth when others might not. Think about how they act around other people when you are with them compared to it just being you and that person. Do they act different? Another thing, some will criticize you but real friends will use constructive criticism! Plus, if they're in a relationship, do they ditch you for their lover? Questions you should ask yourself.