♦9 Ways to Tell If He's Using You!♦ by hunty sa - Musely
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♦9 Ways to Tell If He's Using You!♦

posted in Relationships
01/28/2014
  • How do you know if he's into you or into something else that you offer (ie: your body, money, dinner, connections, or even your laundry machine)? Here are 10 signs to look out for. Of course, just because your guy exhibits one of these signs doesn't mean he's using you......,
    How do you know if he's into you or into something else that you offer (ie: your body, money, dinner, connections, or even your laundry machine)? Here are 10 signs to look out for. Of course, just because your guy exhibits one of these signs doesn't mean he's using you......,
  • 1. Listen To Your Gut
    Yes that little voice in your head that is giving you warnings, that's your natural instincts. Your subconscious might be picking up subtle signs that your mind and heart are too excited to notice.

  • 2. He Doesn't Make Much Of An Effort
    He sees you when it's convenient for him (like when you go over to his house or meet him out with his friends). But he doesn't put much effort into making the connection.

  • 3. He Doesn't Pay
    If you seem to always be shelling out the cash for the dinner, movie tickets, cabs, entrance fees… everything, you might start to wonder if he's using you for money.

  • 4. He Acts Differently Around His Friends
    The way a guy acts with you when his friends are around can be an important indicator of how he truly feels about you. He might be sweet and lovey dovey when you're alone, but as soon as the guys come by if he's distant, demeaning, rude, dismissive…

  • 5. Friends And Acquaintances Warn That He's A DIfferent Guy When You're Not There
    If there are inconsistencies with the stories you hear from others about his personality, which are different from how he acts when he is with you… which one is the real him? Is he just putting on a show or...,

  • 6. He Has Ulterior Motivations
    He talks about other ulterior motives with you- like that your dad might be able to get him a job, that he would love to use your beach house, that he would love for you to bring him to more parties where he can meet the important people.

  • 7. You Feel Like You Work For Him
    He is constantly asking you to run errands and make pit stops on your way to see him. It makes you feel like you're his assistant, not his girlfriend.

  • 8. He Only Comes Over When He's Hungry Or Needs to Do Laundry
    He always brings his laundry and eats all your food. Once those needs are met, he's out of there.

  • 9. You Are Always and Only His Go-TO During Moments of Weakness

  • If too many (or even just a few) of the above ring true, you might want to start re-thinking if he's really into you, or if what he's into is something you offer.
    If too many (or even just a few) of the above ring true, you might want to start re-thinking if he's really into you, or if what he's into is something you offer.
  • Plz like Ty ;)

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